14 Frugal Yet Fabulous Mother’s Day Gifts

mdgarden-smYou don’t have to spend a fortune on Mother’s Day gifts! Here’s 14 fabulous ways to make her day:

1. Cook your mom a delicious meal instead of taking her to a restaurant. You can put together breakfast-in-bed, an elegant brunch, or a special dinner for a fraction of the cost of dining out. (Even if you’re not a culinary whiz, she’ll appreciate your efforts!)

2. Instead of splurging on an overpriced bouquet, take your mom to the park, or local horticultural center, to admire the spring blooms. This time of year, public gardens are planted with a gorgeous array of flowers, including tulips, lilies, and daffodils. Enjoying live flowers is more frugal, and environmentally-friendly, than purchasing cut ones.

3. Dig through your family photographs, and select pictures of you (and your siblings) from your childhood years through the present. Scan them into your computer, create a digital slideshow, and burn a DVD to give to your mom. For less high-tech moms, arrange them into a pretty album (you can print them in sepia tones, or black-and-white, for an elegant look).

4. Write your mom a poem or a personal letter. Words from your heart are far more touching than a greeting card or store-bought gift.

5. Give your mom the gift of your time. Offer to do household chores or maintenance tasks, or share your skills and expertise. For a formal flourish, present her with handmade coupons for your “services”—like washing the windows, waxing the floor, or installing software on her computer.

6. Wash your mom’s car. In addition to a good soap and rinse, vacuum and wipe down the interior. It’s a great way to make your mom’s day without spending a dime!

7. Give your mom a beauty sampler. Spend an afternoon at the mall, and visit the cosmetic counters of every department store. Collect all the free samples you can—like high-end hand creams, eye shadows, lip balms, lotions, and miniature perfumes—and assemble them into a cute container.

8. Put together a “spa basket” for your mom. Bath salts, body lotion, loofahs, and other pampering products can be obtained inexpensively at your local drugstore. Arrange them in a pretty basket, and tie with a colorful ribbon. It’s much less costly than a gift certificate to a local spa.

9. Put together a “gourmet basket” for your mom. Pick a theme, obtain items inexpensively from the grocery store, arrange them artfully in a basket, and top it off with a decorative ribbon. Some themes include a pancake breakfast (gourmet pancake mix, maple syrup, preserves, and coffee beans), high tea (a selection of gourmet teas, crackers, scones, and preserves) or a chocolate lover’s dream (various bars of chocolate, and chocolate-dipped items, like pretzels, espresso beans, and dried fruit).

10. Take your mom out for a Mother’s Day picnic. Prepare salads and sandwiches, and pick a lovely setting where you can enjoy the fresh air and spring flowers. It’s a wonderful way to spend quality time with your mom, free of the usual distractions.

11. Instead of a buying a bouquet, include a packet of seeds in her Mother’s Day card and help her plant them in her garden.

12. Give your mom something homemade. If you’re a knitter, make her a scarf; if you’re a beader, make her a necklace; if you’re an artist, paint her a picture; if you’re a musician, write her a song. She’ll treasure such a gift much more than something bought in a store.

13. Give your mom something small but decadent, that she wouldn’t splurge on herself—like an artisan soap, a scented lotion, or fresh pastries from the local bakery.

14. Take your mom out for a free, or low-cost, cultural experience: like an outdoor concert, art exhibition, or community theater production.

Frugal Holiday: Re-Gifting Rules

gift2Given the recession, I expect we’ll see a significant uptick in re-gifting this holiday season.

In my opinion, it’s a perfectly acceptable way to fulfill your gift obligations. And despite the flack it receives, re-gifting is perfectly in line with some of today’s popular lifestyle trends:

* It’s frugal: it saves you from having to purchase a gift

* It’s minimalist: it clears clutter from your house

* It’s green: it’s a particularly festive form of recycling

Therefore, I think re-gifting is poised to make significant inroads in popularity and acceptability.

Thinking of jumping on the bandwagon? Just follow a few simple rules, and you’ll be passing on your presents like a pro:

1. Make sure the item is appropriate to the recipient. Ideally, it should be similar to what you would have bought them in a store.

2. Re-gift outside the social circle (and preferably region) of the original giver.

3. Don’t re-gift something you’ve already used.

Above all, use common sense and always err on the side of caution. Offending someone (or embarrassing yourself) is never worth saving a few bucks. If something’s too risky to re-gift, don’t do it—sell it on eBay, and use the proceeds to buy something new!

Frugal Holiday: Give the Gift of Your Time

bench-mThere’s one gift that’s more valuable than anything bought in a store; more appreciated by its recipient than anything wrapped in pretty paper; and sure to be remembered for years to come. The best part: giving it won’t cost you a thing.

What is this fabulous gift? Your time!

This holiday, offer your “presence”—instead of presents—to friends and family. Make it formal by giving the recipient a handmade certificate for your “services.”

Here’s a few ways to wow those on your gift list (without spending a dime):

1. Offer a free night of babysitting for a friend’s kids

2. Offer to help an elderly relative with household chores or repairs

3. Offer to spend an afternoon chatting, having coffee, or walking through the park with someone special

4. Offer to teach someone something you know—like how to cook, do yoga, or speak a foreign language

5. Offer your expertise to help someone with a task, be it fixing their computer, doing their taxes, or hemming a garment

All too often, store bought gifts mean credit card bills for you, and unwanted clutter for the recipient.

A gift of your time, on the other hand, costs you absolutely nothing—but to the giftee, it’s priceless!

Frugal Holiday: Give Photos as Gifts

photogiftFamily photographs make beautiful, budget-friendly gifts that’ll be treasured by their recipients.

Browse through your digital images to find special snapshots appropriate for the giftee. (It helps if you’ve been toting your camera to family functions and gatherings!) Perhaps, for example, you have a darling image of your two-year-old niece; printed and framed, it makes the perfect gift for her mother!

For adults, dig up some nostalgic photos from their childhood. If necessary, reach out to relatives with old family photos, and offer to scan them into digital format. It’s a great way to preserve family history, while building a wonderful database of images.

Once you’ve selected your images, print and arrange them into gift-friendly format. Single photos are best presented in frames, while multiples work well in small books or albums. Alternatively, burn a slide show of images onto a DVD that recipients can view on their computers or televisions.

Frugal Holiday: Make Your Own Gift Baskets

giftbasket2Gift baskets are a luxurious holiday treat—and you can make your own, at little cost, with items from the grocery store!

Purchase a plain, inexpensive basket from the craft store to hold the items. Then simply choose a theme, and gather the necessary foodstuffs or ingredients. Arrange them artfully in the basket, and cover with cellophane; top it off with a decorative ribbon in seasonal colors.

Here are some popular gift basket themes:

1. Gourmet pasta dinner. Include colorful Italian pasta, a nice bottle of extra virgin olive oil, a package of sundried tomatoes, breadsticks, sauce, and seasonings

2. Pancake breakfast. Include gourmet pancake mix, maple syrup, preserves, and coffee beans

3. Chocolate lover’s dream. Include various bars of chocolate, and chocolate-dipped items (like pretzels, espresso beans, and dried fruit)

4. Snack attack. Fill with the recipient’s favorite snacks, like nuts, chips, crackers, pretzels, and trail mix

5. High tea. Fill with a selection of gourmet teas, crackers, scones, and preserves

Get creative, and tailor the contents to the recipient’s particular tastes and interests. They’re sure to love such a thoughtful (and delicious) gift!